Mental Health
Autism Diagnoses in Adult Women Are on the Rise. We Asked Experts to Explain Why
More likely to fall through the cracks as kids, adult females are seeking autism diagnoses after years of searching for answers.
By Cassie Shortsleeve
Life Got You Down? Experts Suggest ‘Lemonading’
These six simple tactics can shift your mindset—and make you happier.
By Korin Miller
5 Signs You’ve Outgrown Your Therapist
Yep, it’s normal to graduate from your sessions together—here’s how to tell when you’re ready.
By Jenna Ryu
How to Finally Let Go of a Grudge That’s Been Living Rent-Free in Your Head
No, you don’t have to forgive, excuse, or be the “bigger person” in order to move on.
By Jenna Ryu
6 Habits Therapists Are Begging You to Break for the Sake of Your Mental Health
You might not realize these behaviors are sapping the joy and ease from your life.
By Erica Sloan
7 Little Ways to Take Things Less Personally
If you’ve been called “too sensitive,” this one’s for you.
By Jenna Ryu
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It’s Time to Stop Shaming Runners for Fueling Their Bodies
Avoiding gels isn’t the flex you think—it’s just really, really dumb.
By Cindy Kuzma
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Lili Reinhart Is Fighting for Her Health—and Yours
The actor has been navigating a medical mystery privately for years. She’s finally ready to talk about it.
By Julia SullivanPhotography by Jason Kim
5 Signs You’ve Outgrown a Friendship
Your relationship has probably changed over the years, but has it truly run its course?
By Jenna Ryu
A Little Too Relieved About TikTok? A Phone Cleanse Might Be Just What You Need
TikTok is safe for now, but this could still be the perfect time to finally unplug.
By Jenna Ryu
Brooke Shields’s Nonconsensual Vaginal Rejuvenation Is More Common Than It Should Be
The “surprise” procedure, which she details in her new memoir, hit home for too many women.
By Jenna Ryu
I’m a Psychologist Who Used to Hate Winter—Here’s How to Learn to Love It
Make the countdown to spring way less miserable with a few expert tips.
By Julia Ries
7 Ways to Ease Flight Anxiety, According to Experts
Recent headlines may be fueling your fears—try these tips for staying calm.
By Jenna Ryu
A Haircut Can Actually Ease Your Winter Blues–Here Are 7 Celeb-Inspired Looks to Try
While a new ‘do isn’t a fix-all, therapists say it can brighten up the bleakest season.
By Grace McCarty
The Very Best Cozy Games, From Someone Who’s Played Over 1,000 Hours of Them
Cook, decorate, and sort to your heart’s content.
By Sarah Felbin
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6 Clever Ways to Take a Little Break From Your Family During the Holidays
There’s nothing wrong with wanting some alone time, even when you’re with people you love.
By Jenna Ryu
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No, You Can’t Just ‘Bank’ All Your Rest During Vacations and Breaks
Experts say you need to make downtime part of your everyday life for it to work.
By Erica Sloan
5 Subtle Signs You Might Actually Be in a Codependent Relationship
And how to regain your independence without having to drift apart.
By Jenna Ryu
How to Take Rejection Way Less Personally
The pain is real, but understanding it can stop you from spiraling.
By Julia Ries
You Really Can’t ‘Fix’ Other People—Here’s How to Make Peace With That
Past trauma and hurt are valid, but those aren’t excuses for treating you like crap.
By Jenna Ryu